Indirect Influence & Induction
L2.4 Relational & SystemicChanging the system through indirect moves
What
People unconsciously regulate others' inner life to stabilise their own equilibrium.
What for
Reveals induction patterns and defence mechanisms in relational systems.
How it's used
People unconsciously regulate others’ inner life to stabilize their own equilibrium. RMC teaches the secondary gains of despair — eight interactional ‘benefits’ that keep depression in place: (1) it reduces guilt as a form of penance; (2) it draws sympathy that feels like love; (3) it justifies abandoning relationships; (4) it excuses avoiding obligations; (5) it punishes others who try but fail to help; (6) it makes it hard for others to leave; (7) it justifies addictions and self-destructive comfort; (8) paired with a suicide threat it dominates others. Naming each benefit lets the coach block it and redirect the person toward a purpose of contribution.
Content
Denial, projection, regression as system-stabilising moves.
Source
RMC Manual (Core 100/200) · Module 13
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