Love Strategies
L5 Micro-InterventionsHow this person knows they are loved
What
The elicitation of a person's love strategy: the specific way they must receive love to actually feel it — through what is seen, heard, or physically felt. Partners routinely give love in their own strategy rather than the other's, so both give sincerely and both feel unloved.
What for
Critical for relationship coaching and vehicles.
How it's used
Core tool of relationship coaching. The coach elicits each partner's strategy ('remember a moment you felt totally loved — what exactly happened?'), identifies the key channel and the exact form, and has the partners exchange this knowledge. The intervention is often startlingly simple — the words one partner needs said, the touch the other needs — and immediately actionable. Mismatched love strategies explain years of well-intentioned failure in minutes.
Content
Love strategy = the exact sensory way love must arrive to be felt Elicit via a concrete remembered moment of feeling fully loved Typical mismatch: each partner gives in their own strategy, not the other's Intervention: teach the partners each other's strategy explicitly
Source
RRI
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